I was asking the wrong question for years, and I’m guessing you probably have been, too.

But before I get to it, just consider for a second…

Whenever you get frustrated that you don’t have, and haven't figured out yet how to have, the life you want, what do you do?

I’m you’re like most ambitious (dare I say even Type A) women, you then push harder, try more things, and do more. And when THAT doesn’t work, what then?

You probably start getting into major self-doubt, right?

Because you’re an achiever, a doer who has almost always figured everything out or generally gotten most things you’ve wanted in life. But when all your old ways of getting and achieving what you want in life now aren’t working and you aren’t quite finding your way through, this can feel damn frustrating, demoralizing as hell, and even scary.

So then you start to doubt. And the longer you’ve been trying to create a life you love and thrive, the more doubt you have.

And if you’re like I used to be, you’re asking yourself, “Who the F am I to have the career, the money, the relationship, the love, the kids, the family?”- whatever it is.

But that is the wrong question to ask yourself. And I know it well because I was wrapped up in it for about a decade before I figured it out.

Instead, I now say, “Who the F are you not to?”

Who are you NOT to have the career, the money, the lifestyle, and all you want? Because do you know what? You are an infinite cosmic being, an infinite divine being, a Goddess. You are unlimited, unbounded, infinite potential and opportunity.

There is no limit. There are no bounds. The sky is not the limit.

There is no limit. There is no sky. There's nothing to stop you or keep you from having everything you want when you put the next level tools and pieces in place.

But every time you say, “Who the F am I to have it,” you are limiting your soul and your experience here on Earth. You are affirming to yourself that what you fear, that you can’t have it, you’re not good enough, or whatever your doubt is, is actually true. That is the power of your words and thoughts!

Yet your soul, your Goddess self, your higher self KNOWS it’s all yours already, and she’s telling you to go, go, go! Your desires are your birthright.

So the next time you get into doubting yourself and what is possible for you, ask yourself, “Who the F am I not to? It is mine!”

Now…how does that feel? 😊